GRENADA TO BONAIRE 19 – 23 APRIL 2018

 

Grenada will hold very happy memories for us, our wedding ceremony, the fun and celebration we had with our very dear friends, the excellent food and the humour gene that people of this island are born with. Grenadians have a ready laughter, see the lighter side of life, hold onto family values and demonstrate a courtesy between themselves and towards those who visit their beautiful Island, all these attributes make leaving Grenada a wrench but we must press on to Bonaire and Curacao to lay up over the hurricane season. So, we prepare for the last big passage of our season. Sisu’s hull is in a sorry state from being in a marina for over a week. Barnacles and brown moss like growth is all over her rudder and hull. Once again we get on our fins and snorkels, keep hold of our abrasive kitchen scourers and start the job. It’s not unusual to have fishy company while we work, they feed off the algae and barnacles we scrub off. This time Terry was aware of a black shadow hovering off his peripheral vision. He looked round quickly to be faced with plumes of black fog, squid ink! As the small area of fog cleared he realised he was being watched by 30 to 40 pairs of beady eyes! A group of various sized small squid were gently hovering around him, they were so pretty, delicate rose, pink and raspberry coloured bodies, with big black eyes on either side of their heads, holding their positions within the cluster by fanning their pale speckled frills along the underside of their bellies. Continually curious, in one co-ordinated movement they conducted a ballet around Terry as he worked, if he moved too quick, they shot a small jet of indignant black ink at him, before once again settling in to watch. We have no idea how they communicate, but clearly they do, as another 20 or so quid joined them and Terry had this entourage following him around the hull and rudder, like a group of curious Japanese tourists! I got in and was able to just float around the group and closely study them, they were virtually unconcerned and comfortable in our company, in fact it got to the point where it felt that any squid who let off a small puff of ink actually felt quite embarrassed by it, rather like accidently farting in company you’ve only just met!

As usual for a passage, I’ve cooked various meals to see us over the four/five days, hard boiled eggs, Chinese 5 spice chicken pieces, local sausages cooked in chunks, and a hearty pasta and vegetable salad to go with anything. Conditions were good and we got going on our 436 nautical miles journey. The winds were a steady 18/20 knots and 6/7 foot swells with a decent interval. Excellent! Unfortunately…… by the evening of the first night, just after tea, I began to violently throw up, and up and up……. I was so ill that standing watches for the night, which would have been easy given the conditions were rendered impossible. For the first time ever I could only lie in bed desperately wishing the passage was over, despite it having just begun! I couldn’t even contemplate opening the fridge, I was wretching at the very thought of food! Terry stood watch all through the night and periodically checked on me. Everything I tried, be it meagre mouthfuls of hard boiled egg, yoghurt and water came up before it went down! A head ache of gargantuan proportions hammered and beat remorselessly inside my head. I seriously thought my head would explode. I rarely get headaches, and where this thundering ride of the Valkyries pounding head ache came from was a mystery, the electrical pain storm laughed at the paracetamol I swallowed, mind you, they came up too! I won’t prolong the agony for you dear reader. I continued this way for two days solid, useless for just about anything, though I managed on the second night to get into the cockpit and kept a feeble watch as the vice inside my head squeezed what little brain I have into my eyeball sockets. Terry made the decision to fire up the engine, and gun it to Bonaire, thereby making our passage a day shorter than our original plan of sailing the passage in two 200 mile tacks. This was no time to muck about, we had no idea what was wrong with me, in fact he had considered calling up a passing tanker to lift me off, I would have stubbornly resisted, but in this case had I got any worse I probably wouldn’t have cared less! Fortunately I picked up a little and on our final night was able to help Terry keep an eye out for passing marine traffic. Our eta was reaching Kralendijk, Bonaire at 0430hrs so we stayed awake. As this is our third time in this bay, we were confident to find a mooring buoy amongst the moored yachts in the dark. By 0200hrs we were cruising down the coast of Bonaire, picking out the familiar land marks, the airport lights, the floodlights of the salt flats, the street lights of the town till we reached the bay. Anchoring is not allowed in the bay, it would destroy the coral, so in the dark we quietly motored up and down the mooring buoys, one row set near to the shore and the other row set back, just on the edge of the coral reef. It was busy, but we spotted a spare pair of mooring buoys near to the dinghy dock of Karel’s Bar, that will do! It began to gently drizzle as I went forward, still feeling weak and very tired, as I gave Terry steering instructions towards the buoys, I snagged one on the first attempt! We were moored, what a relief to know that this passage was over!

There was an upside, pardon the loose play on words given the sickness content of this blog, on the third day we saw a tremendous Booby fishing frenzy, over 100 birds in the group, called a “congress”  “trap” or a “hatch”,  wheeling round, then suddenly folding their wings executing 30 foot high dare devil plunges, propelling the bird up to two metres deep into the fish shoal. Magnificent Frigate birds, also known as “the pirate bird” were lunging at the Boobys, attempting to wrench fish from the Boobys beaks, who’d done the hard work catching fish in the first place. Spectacular aerial battles were taking place between the predators of the skies with their black two metre wing spans and the friendly brown Boobys. It was a close call, but the Boobys had the edge. These two breeds of birds are fascinating. The Boobys have medium large hydrodynamic bodies and long narrow wings are built to withstand the stress of plunge diving. They also have exceptionally webbed feet, waterproofed feathers, forward facing eyes,air sacs within their skulls to protect the skull from high speed impact and no external nostrils. To prevent water entering the airways during dives, Boobys must breathe through their bills! Magnificent Frigates birds feed on the wing and largely forage. Their pneumatic skeleton, light weight streamlined body and highly developed pectoral muscles are adapted for high altitude flying. They have a long swallow like tail for manoeuvrability and with more than two metres of wing span they have the highest ratio of wing surface compared to body mass of any living bird. But… unusually for a sea bird, they lack waterproof feathers and their legs are far too small to land on sea, however they can remain airborne for many weeks at a time and rely on soaring and piloting the air currents. They can travel open ocean distances to reach other bird colonies, covering thousands of miles using thermal air columns, gliding down in the down draft to forage of the sea surface, then cruising in ideal flying conditions between 50 and 6,000 metres altitude their energy consumption is so low that their heart rate can be as slow as when sitting on the nest, they can remain airborne indefinitely. They can sleep during flight in ten second bursts throughout the night, averaging 45 minutes total sleep each day. Even more incredibly, during these powernaps, only one half of the brain sleeps, the other side remaining semi alert to avoid mid air collisions! The life story of these two birds is fascinating if you wish to learn more, for us, discovering more about them makes us appreciate them both even more. In the case of the Frigate bird, their numbers are in decline, they act as environmental indicators by which the health of our oceans can be measured. Chemical and climatic changes and imbalances in the lower levels of their food chain deeply affect these birds, if we do not improve the health of our oceans, these stunning birds will continue into decline. Equally the Brown Booby is becoming victim to human activity in developing where they breed, over fishing and badly disposed of fishing tackle. We’ve seen hooks and line trailing from beaks, eventually they will become unable to feed and starve. There is growing awareness to look after bird and marine life in the Caribbean, to protect their future numbers and growth.

 

 

GRENADA 11 APRIL 2018 OUR WEDDING DAY!

 

Our special day dawned, we had to be at the Magistrates Court for 8am, our ceremony would be conducted around 8.30am, before the Court got going with the normal hearings or as Terry said the others are sentenced. The four of us, very smartly dressed for that time in the morning excitedly piled into our hire car, the morning was cool and clear as we drove along the quayside of St Georges. The fishing boats, with their bright orange marker flags sticking up on the decks were like bunting waving us along the road. We were in plenty of time, 7.30am, we turned a corner to find a Policeman stood in the middle of the road we were heading and waving us up a side street away from the Sendell Tunnel which links the two halves of St Georges. This was no time for a diversion! We weaved our way up the incredibly steep streets, Terry working out a new way to reach the Magistrates Court! We need not have worried, we arrived in plenty of time, even finding a parking place right outside the Courts thanks to John’s sharp eyes. The Courthouses are perched at the very top of one of the city’s streets, you certainly need to know your handbrake is strong, the gradient has to be seen to be believed. With the cars bonnet facing upwards, we pushed the doors open and prized ourselves out, the doors slamming behind us as soon as we let go. The grid like pattern of roads sloping sharply downhill made us wonder if any cars ended up in the sea!

We were ushered into a court room, it was becoming very exciting and very real! This was our holding pen, perhaps to give the potential bride and groom time to reconsider? The windows were criss crossed with iron bars, Terry jokingly clung to them, too late now! the lady who had dealt with me the day before handed us two Marriage Certificates, partially filled in, all that was needed were our names. We had to check through these and check all was correct. Both our father’s names were wrong! Would our wedding still go ahead? No need for concern, the Certificates were redone and we could proceed! The four of us were then invited in to a large, airy Court room and welcomed by a Policeman, two Court officials, and finally the Magistrate herself. The tall windows were partially coloured, casting the room a rosy hue in the morning sun. The Magistrate welcomed us and as we stood in front of her with our friends on either side, following the cues from the Magistrates, we each said our vows to each other, the ceremony was lovely and very moving. I felt quite teary when Terry said his words to me, and I responded I had to get a grip on myself and not burst into tears! The Magistrate declared us man and wife, and everyone in the room congratulated us! It was a very, very happy and emotional ceremony! John did a fantastic job of catching the joyful atmosphere with his photographs, Holly looked beautiful as my bridesmaid and it wasn’t even 9am yet! After photographs we went back to our Hotel for a relaxed wedding breakfast, and let the feeling of being married to each other sink in! The timing was perfect, allowing us plenty of time before meeting Ian for lunch at 1pm to go and see Maria in her shop as we’d promised. She was so happy for us, and we introduced John and Holly over orange liquer and iced coffee.

Lunch was great fun, Ian had made the right choice, the food was excellent, and as we gazed over the view from the balcony over the blue waters of Prickly Bay, sharing our day laughing and relaxing with friends, our day was more than we’d ever originally anticipated or planned for. Our whole wedding experience had so many unexpected memories, the slight hitches, the legal hoops, the early start, the local people who made our day so special with their friendliness and humour, the manner in which the Magistrate made our ceremony truly meaningful to us and especially that we had finally managed to meet up with John and Holly at such a special time, we hadn’t anticipated any of this. We had just wished for a no fuss, quiet wedding, we got that and way more!

GRENADA 3 – 10 APRIL 2018 Wedding preparations Continued!

 

We still had a few things to sort out before our wedding. Good friends of ours from the Isle of Man Ian and Trish keep their yacht “Serenity” in Prickly Bay further down the coast of Grenada. Ian, Trish and I Manx danced together for more decades than we care to recall. We had tried to meet up last season, only to miss each other by being on different islands at different times! When surprise plans are sprung you accept unpredicted outcomes. Trish was away in Australia seeing her daughter and young children, then flying straight home. However, Ian was still here, albeit preparing their yacht for laying up! We arranged to meet Ian for lunch at Prickly Bay, but before that we had to collect our Marriage Licence from the Prime Minister’s Offices. I dressed appropriately! We stood in one of the Ministerial offices, and we were handed our Marriage Licence and asked to check it. We carefully read the rather elaborate and stamped document. Oh no! There was an error in the spelling of our home address! We thought the girl who had prepared the Licence was going to burst into tears! The name of our cottage had been mis read on the application form. Our wedding plans were not without drama! Fortunately, much to the relief of both the Secretary and ourselves, there was a day or so to have the Licence re done and collected before the wedding day!

 

We met up with Ian, and he took us across Prickly Bay in his dinghy to an excellent micro brewery, where Terry chose five taster beers out of the many they brew, and I chose 5 ciders each selection laid out on tasting boards and as it was lunch time we enjoyed superb burgers! We sprung our surprise on him, would he join us on our wedding day? Ian would love to, however, our wedding ceremony was the very morning he was having Serenity hauled out! Not to worry though, he could join us for our wedding lunch and even better he could recommend somewhere really good. Fantastic! Terry and I already been sampling various restaurants earlier in the week, you have to do your research! From The Brewery it was a short walk to the St Georges University Club. This uni club has an outdoor pool and small bar and restaurant with a generous balcony overlooking Prickly Bay, it was really special! We looked at the lunch menu, Ian and Trish use here regularly so he could recommend the quality of the food and service. It looked perfect, that was another wedding day decision made. We knew John and Holly would love here too. Ian said he’d organise booking lunch for us at the Club, everything was falling into place and becoming very special!

With the wedding dress bought, far posher than originally planned, a great piece of jewellery was next. We called in at Paradise Glass in St Georges, initially just to have a look. I’d brought my wedding dress, so I could match the jewellery to the colours in the dress. At this rate Terry wouldn’t recognise me, I normally throw clothes and bling together. Maria McClafferty greeted us warmly and offered us homemade iced coffee whilst we looked around. Maria is Polish, but has lived in England for 35 years, before moving to Grenada, five foot nothing with blond hair piled up, sparkly eyes and a huge smile that lit up the shop as much as her coloured glass! Her shop was filled with glass ware of her own design, plates, vases and jewellery, the Caribbean sun lit them up and the shop glowed as the sun reflected through the pieces dotted around. There were also photos of Maria stood alongside the statue of the First Prime Minister of Grenada, The Right Honourable Sir Eric Matthew Gairy. She had designed the statue that we had admired in the Ministerial Gardens, and now we were here picking some of her jewellery, a nice coincidence! There was quite a choice of beautiful handmade pieces. Whilst Terry sat in the man crèche drinking his iced coffee, Maria and I put some necklaces, bracelets and ear rings on me, great fun! We settled on three pieces. I felt like Cinderella with my fairy godmother, I looked down at my grotty, worn out boat sandals, I couldn’t wear those! Maria had on a pair that looked great, and comfy, I don’t do heels. She told me where she’d bought them, so afterwards we back into town and I got a pair the same in black to go with the dress! My god, this was getting scary, there was a chance I might actually look half decent! She was thrilled that I was wearing her jewellery on our day and asked us to call in after we got married, she would bring her home made orange liquer and we could all share a toast in her shop! We promised. Getting our wedding sorted was becoming exciting!

 

We just needed to confirm the time and date. Another trip to the Magistrates office in town. By now having got to grips with the dress code, I wasn’t going to be caught out again and looked normal and appropriate. At the front desk of Court No. 1 I stood in front of a window of reflective glass with three holes for speaking into at eye level and a half moon opening at chest height. You couldn’t see who you were talking to due to the reflective glass, it was as though you were talking to yourself. Therefore, I, and anyone else wishing to speak to an official had to crouch down and peer through the half moon opening and speak to the official’s navel, or crouch further and look upwards to see their faces. As I waited in the queue I watched people come in, look perplexed, go onto tip toe to speak into the three holes, then as that didn’t work very well, bend their knees and peer through the opening on the counter, it gave the official on the other side of the desk a distinct power advantage, they didn’t have to bow down to speak! My turn, I duly half bowed, half crouched and spoke to someone whom I couldn’t see very well without contorting myself further and peering through the gap like Quasimodo with my head on one side and looking up at the very pleasant girl on the other side. She came round from behind the counter to help. Now we could discuss our wedding date and time like equals, much better! Terry and I considered 11am a good time for our marriage ceremony, civilised, time to get ready, (for what little there was to be done!), have a relaxed breakfast at the hotel with John and Holly, and drive up to the Magistrates Court on the morning of the 11th April. Simples. Ahh…. No. The girl politely advised me that wedding ceremonies are conducted at 8am. Whaaaat?!!! 8am??!!!! I must have misheard. She confirmed the time. It was definitely 8am. They carry out the wedding ceremonies before they proceed onto the criminal court cases. I suppose it starts the Magistrates day on a happy note…….. Terry picked me up from the Magistrates Court in the hire car and confirmed to him that we’re good for the 11th April, however…… the time of our wedding is 8am. His eyebrows shot up into his forehead! “You’re joking!” “Nope”. Once we got over the surprise, we realised this early start was a good thing. At that time in the morning, it was still nice and cool and we could simply go back to the hotel after for our wedding breakfast!

John, Holly and ourselves were staying at the Radisson Beach Resort Hotel at Grand Anse, not too far from where we had left Sisu secure at the Grenada Yacht Club. We didn’t want to leave her at anchor in the bay whilst we were living it up in luxury for a few days. We agreed that if it weren’t for the big, comfy bed, the decent shower, clean, soft towels, pools to laze round and swim in and great food including an extensive breakfast list, then of course we’d prefer to be on our boat!

We picked up our friends John and Holly from the airport and hugging them both, greeted them with a surprise, the early start on the wedding day! Thankfully they are both early risers.

 

GRENADA 3 – 10 APRIL 2018 This is one Island we won’t forget in a hurry!! Part one.

THIS IS ONE ISLAND WE WON’T FORGET FOR A WONDERFUL REASON, PART ONE!

 

How do you follow up a romantic proposal after a 22 day sail across the Atlantic? You get married! As I said yes to Terry’s proposal in Antigua way back in January 2017, we just had to work out the logistics of when and where to get married. We both wanted a no fuss wedding. To get married at home in the Isle of Man meant travel and expense for Terry’s family and friends, to get married in the UK meant travel and expense for my family and friends. We all lead busy lives, and after much throwing ideas into the air, making loose plans which had the potential to escalate into the circus we wished to avoid, we did the sensible thing and ran away to get married! It’s our day, our commitment to each other and let’s be honest the best bit for guests is the get together afterwards!

One of the islands we missed sailing to last year was Grenada. This season it was on our list. Getting to Grenada was a close call, we almost ran out of time due to the strong Trade Winds preventing us from sailing East early on in our sailing season. The island is stunning, English speaking and most important to us, if you wish to get married here, so long as you are resident for three days and have the necessary legal documents, it’s simple and the Marriage Certificate is legal back home. Perfect!

Prior to sailing to Grenada, we’d spent a couple of days in Carriacou, part of the Grenadines, so technically we’d been resident in Grenada for the required three days. That was the first step dealt with. A 38 nautical mile hop from Carriacou and we dropped anchor at St Georges, the main city of Grenada, handy for the Ministerial offices and Magistrates. One small thing we hadn’t considered was Easter. Our sons are grown up, so we don’t have Easter school holidays to remind us, and there’s a refreshing complete lack of overpriced, over packaged chocolate Easter eggs or Easter chicks/rabbits/daffodils decorations and the other consumer must haves that seem to feature in shops at home from January. We only had a certain time frame in which to get married before we’d have to leave for Bonaire and Curacao where we will lay up Sisu over the hurricane period. The Easter holiday period ate into our time scale, could the legal paperwork be checked and rubber stamped in time, could we manage to get an available date for the Magistrates Court for our wedding ceremony?! Could I find a nice dress?!! Terry’s an excellent foil being the optimist to my pessimism, or, what I call being realistic.

With all the legal documents sweating in a plastic wallet, we sweated too, hot footing it up the steep hill to the cluster of Ministerial buildings, passing by at the foot of the steep climb, the superb statue of the first Grenadian Prime Minister,  a very handsome and charismatic Minster too by all accounts. Little did we know that we would meet Maria McClafferty who created this statue!

We had carried out our research on line so we had a good idea of what to do, we hadn’t bargained on the Grenadian way which is quite different! We entered the main Ministerial office, and explained what our plans were. We were then directed to the Registry of Births and Deaths, we needed to ask for a Marriage Licence. The Registry office was busy, however the courtesy and humour between folks in the queue was worth every minute of the waiting time! We reached the counter and once again explained why we were here. We were handed a yellow Marriage Licence application form, once we’d filled in our bit, we needed to pay the Treasury (a different part of the buildings) a small fee for the paperwork and stamps for the Licence, then get a Justice of the Peace to sign the form, and pay the JP EC$60. The JP’s office was back in the Ministerial buildings. This was getting complicated……. We trooped back to the main reception desk with our Marriage Licence application form and asked if there was a JP available to sign our form. We were advised my clothing wasn’t appropriate, Terry had a t shirt and shorts, I had a strappy top and shorts. We just got away with the sandals….To be fair, there was a sign on the door of the main building, but no advice given on the Government website as to appropriate clothes!! Fortunately, there was a JP, but I had to wait outside the building whilst Terry went to see her. Terry came back beaming, the JP was a lovely lady who was coincidently considering a holiday in the Isle of Man! Form signed and fee paid, we’d completed another step towards getting hitched. But…… we both had to still get inside the Ministerial buildings to submit the completed application to the Cabinet Secretariat for processing. I needed a quick change. As it was lunchtime and the official buildings were closing for lunch, we decided to grab some lunch ourselves, and get “decent” clothes. We could also fix the date of our wedding.

Have you ever had to flash buy clothing? It’s not recommended. I grabbed a dress which was below my knees, multi coloured stripes, ruched bodice and straps, I also grabbed a pink t shirt, which in my mind “would go with the dress”. We also bought Terry a smart pair of grey linen trousers, a new shirt and my wedding dress, infinitely more successful and flattering than the grab it and go ensemble for getting past the reception desk at the Ministerial buildings! There was another task to fulfil. We needed to fix the date and time at the Courts offices across town. We were given a vague confirmation that should be fine for the time and date we just needed to call the day before, a bit close to the day for my liking! Once we had our Marriage Licence, the date could be confirmed. A bit edgy and close to the wire for my liking, but it’s their rules, we crossed our fingers that all would work out fine, well Terry did, I rung my hands in anxiety. We bussed back the Ministerial buildings once again, and I changed into my “appropriate” clothing behind a van parked in the Ministerial buildings car park. “That looks rum” said Terry once I’d got changed. I looked as though he’d taken me from an Amish farm crossed with Little Orphan Annie. It was seriously not a good look. The pink t shirt under the straps of the pinky, purple, blue striped dress really finished the look off, plus the knackered flat sandals. All I needed were goats following me.

At the reception desk the receptionist looked me up and down, these girls know how to dress and boy if it ain’t colourful, classy, sassy and clinging, it ain’t right honey! She stifled her laughter to her credit and with her eyes watering from the effort of not laughing she passed me to the guard who was also attempting not to laugh out loud. Laughter and fun is natural to Grenadians, fortunately I understood how ridiculous I looked and we shared the joke…. I walked the floors of shame as we went to the fifth floor, beautifully dressed girls literally gawped at my attire, I could see the funny side and could not be offended, they were quite right to stare, I’d have done the same! I was the last turkey in the farm yard at Christmas whilst they were exotic birds of paradise. We reached the Cabinet Secretariat’s office, passing through open offices of smartly dressed men and women, their eyes momentarily widened upon first sight of me as I went past with my head held high, vowing to dump the bloody dress over the side of Sisu as soon as possible. That done, I freed myself from my middle aged woman in a little girls frock disaster and changed back into my “inappropriate” shorts and top again, telling Terry to stop bloody laughing. Believe me, the whole day felt like we’d entered Alice in Wonderland life, nothing was as it seemed, we were on a surreal trip of ping ponging between buildings, clothing and seeing different people in different parts of the city, who needed the Mad Hatter? We had the Mad Dresser……. In amongst this we had to go to the Treasury offices to pay the Licence fee and stamps for the application form! However….. it appeared that somehow by physically jumping through the legal hoops and Departments, we had bypassed the three day Marriage Licence processing system and got the whole application dealt with in one day. The JP advised Terry that his turning up at her office was most unusual, Marriage Licences applications arrive on her desk by post, result!!! We saved three days of waiting!! All we had to do was collect the Marriage Licence in a day or so. We earned our beer that day!

At the end of the day, Terry, well known for his fashion savvy, said to me “Why didn’t you wear the t shirt over the dress? That’s what I thought you’d do, it did look peculiar”. Do you know dear reader, wearing the t shirt over the dress never even occurred to me…………